The beliefs we hold about ourselves and our world have powerful magnetic qualities, attracting exactly what resonates with our beliefs. What we notice in life is not random, though our flow of attention is often spontaneous. What we notice corresponds to what we believe.
If I believe that I’m essentially a good guy, I’m going to notice what matches that belief. If I believe I live in a world of abundance, the spontaneous flow of my attention will be dominated by evidence and expressions of abundance.
We also tend to spend our time with people whose beliefs resonate with ours, shunning and avoiding people whose beliefs conflict with ours.
The question is: Is it possible to shift in our beliefs? Actually, it is. It happens throughout our lives as we get exposed to new people, new ideas, new experiences.